Happy Christmas Eve Eve!
A good time to reflect on things I am thankful for. Grateful for a quiet Christmas celebration with just me and my husband, our tiny living Christmas tree, for rainbows and odd dark clouds with sun shining against them yesterday, for having parents and a grandmother I felt safe sending the link to my new poems on Wicked Alice, knowing that they will understand and not be afraid of poems like “Ode to Fellatio,” grateful that I am finally well enough to go back to school, grateful for the book coming out next year, grateful to poets who have written the books I loved this year, grateful to friends who have listened to me whine and worry, grateful to friends who share their poems with me, grateful for my two lounging cats. Grateful to write, and that sometimes people even read what I write. Grateful for mail in the mailbox, good or bad. Grateful for South Park Christmas shows last night, and for Anne McAffery’s Dragonsong series on tape, which I’ve been listening to. Grateful for new CDs of Johnny Cash and The Shins.
“It’s been a long December and there’s reason to believe maybe this year will be better than the last…” We listen to this Counting Crows song at the end of every year. Sometimes more goes wrong than we know. Sometimes things go right. Often at the same time. This has been one of those years.
This weekend we are going to sneak out and see some movies. I’m woefully behind on catching movies. What should we see first?

Back in the cold, rainy, dark Northwest, from my sojourn into the sunny and darn cold, snowy Midwest. Why don’t I or any of my family live in say, Hawaii or Arizona? Seriously people. Christmas is so much Christmass-ier with a warm sandy beach.
The most interesting new news in my inbox during my time away? I’m now booked to read poetry and speak on panels at a sci-fi convention in Washington in February called RadCon. My book’s artist, Michaela, got me into it. Who knows – maybe I will find the lost demographic of sci-fi-comic-book-poetry geeks. At least it’ll be a different kind of audience. And I can collect more cool sci-fi art for my office walls.
Plenty of fascinating blogging on the whys and wherefores of journal publication going on while I was gone at Seth’s blog, Eduardo’s, A.D.’s, and Kristy’s, among others…but since I’m getting ready to go back to my low-residency MFA program after a semester off, and am feeling all trepidatious about that – with a year and 10K to go – and since I’ve been getting e-mails from potential low-res MFA students asking what it’s all about, I thought I’d blog about that.
Why attend an MFA program, especially one you have to pay for? Well, I’m married and can’t move right now, and don’t want to attend the local university, so I was stuck with the (usually expensive – from 3-6 K per semester, including food and housing) low-residency option. Also, I had already done a regular, paid-for-by-the-university, on-campus MA program at University of Cincinnati. I mean, I like my life right now, I just wanted to add more poetry to it, so the low-residency option was the right one for me at the time. I applied to several low-res programs, and took the one closest to me, rather than the one that offered, say, the most scholarship money or had the best literary magazine – a decision which, at the time, was done because of my health – I needed to stay close to doctors that knew me. It ended up being a good decision, I think – the convenience of not having to shlep stuff on a plane across country twice a year AND the program I chose having an excellent faculty (if some wobbly administration over the last year) are two reasons why.
So what good has the MFA program done? Can an MFA program make you a better poet? More connected? More published?
I can say that for me, yes, the MFA program (mainly because of one-on-one work with two great poets) did make me a better writer. That’s obviously subjective. But, non-subjectively, I have written twice as many poems every semester I was in school compared to the same time periods I was not in school. Also, non-subjectively, I had about twice the acceptance rate from journals per semester since I started going to school. As per the journal publication discussions at the aforementioned blogs, that increase doesn’t neccessarily mean an increase in quality, but perhaps an increase in awareness of how other people read my work – maybe.
Since I started the MFA program, I also had a chapbook published, and a book manuscript accepted for publication. But those things aren’t guaranteed – I think I’m the only poetry student in my program that happened to so far. Did those things happen because I’m in an MFA program? I was submitting to chapbook and book publishers before I started the MFA, so maybe it was coincidence. Hard to say. Did the MFA program make me think harder and more critically about my manuscript? Absolutely yes, but I still felt I needed to seek advice from people outside the program to come up with the final versions of the chapbook and book.
Community – yes, the MFA program does provide community – in the case of my program, the two ten day residencies plus e-mail list contact with faculty and students. I’ve met great poets, got to hang out at some fun parties, and made some friends. But I would say the community it provided has been of equal or less importance to that of say, attending local readings, workshops and lectures, going to conferences, or, say, blogging.
Maybe the MFA gives people more confidence about their work. It’s one thing for my circle of friends at the local workshop to say nice things about a poem, and another thing for a couple of nationally renowned poets to say the same. (No offense to my local workshop friends, who are all destined to be nationally renowned, of course 😉 But I did feel that what I was writing was okay to write, and that I should write more of that, and even take more risks in what I was doing, push the envelope further. Useful stuff? You bet. Does this happen in every MFA program? I don’t know. Some friends in other low-res programs (and even my own) had the opposite happen with their advisors – they were actively discouraged – so that can happen too. A good fit between advisor/mentor and student is really important. And I’m not sure I would have known, without meeting them, which poets would make the best mentors for me. It’s not necessarily the poets you might think.
The workshops at the MFA program are hit or miss, like many workshops – sometimes you get great and useful feedback, sometimes absolute zero. Very dependent on your group and workshop leader. The readings are fun, the lectures occassionally dull but usually very helpful, the socializing (2 am cajunized tater tot marathons, anyone? Fireside singing of old Tom Petty songs?) exhausting but usually what I’m gladdest I spent time doing. Ten days of eight AM to 2 AM scheduling is hard physically. Bring vitamins and then, more vitamins.
For me, doing the MFA was a way to keep myself from throwing myself back into full-time work and ignoring my creative writing (pretty much a pattern of mine – I even worked full-time at a nine-to-five at AT&T during my MA program, NOT something I’d recommend) and to give myself a chance to see if I could succeed at this poetry thing. This may sound crazy, but I think until you put yourself into a position where you are reading and writing and thinking about poetry every single day, you aren’t really giving yourself the best chance to succeed. So I said, for two years, I’m going to do that. If it all came to nothing, I could always go back to what I’d done before, or maybe the same thing but spending more time reading and writing. Nothing to lose except time off the career ladder and some money.
Anyway, now I’m off to buy a Charlie Brown-sized Christmas tree, cards, and perhaps some celebratory cookies. Anyone have any good New Year’s resolutions set out yet? Mine is to spend less time in doctor’s offices, and more time doing fun stuff.

Hey all, just getting ready to leave town and spend a crazy week in Cincinnati with my large family and the in-laws, so all is disarray and stress (did I remember to pack blank? Where’s my blank? Who’s picking us up at blank?)
but check out Jennifer Thorton’s blog for a rundown of a seminar on publishing by Jeffrey Levine we were lucky enough to attend…
and remember, give poetry for the holidays 🙂
Love, peace, and wishing you all a happy and stressless holiday celebration!

“And Henry says,
You’re lucky to even know me,
you’re lucky to be alive.
You’re lucky to be drinking here for free
cause I’m a sucker for your lucky pretty eyes…”

Today I am grateful. I am busy, stressed, shipping out Christmas packages, unpacking and repacking for another trip, this time home to Cincinnati, trying to get everything done before I leave. Trying to keep in touch with many friends, and I am lucky to have so many friends. Trying to keep my writing stuff organized, trying to meet school paperwork deadlines, trying to keep up with which poems are where and why and how. Trying to get ready for my reading Thursday night. I am excited about my first book, feeling hopeful about the awkward second manuscript I’ve been working on, feeling grateful that someone is taking a chance on me and Becoming the Villainess. Grateful for a recent acceptance from a journal I really like, Wicked Alice. Grateful I can still love being with my husband of 11+ years after six hours in the car together; grateful that when we went dancing we still remembered how to move our feet, how to head-bang, how to slow-dance. I’m grateful for the fat, black-capped Anna’s Hummingbird still guarding my feeder throw snow and cold rain.

“And he keeps telling me
you, you have time
(but I don’t believe him)”

The indomitable Ivy Alvarez has an interview of me and poet Jill Chan up at http://ahappening.typepad.com/qarrtsiluni/
Thanks Ivy 🙂
Now, I’m off to Whistler, BC to battle the great white north til Monday. Have a great weekend!

Seattle Art Scene News…

Now, as we know, the public (ie, regular people’s) access to great art is usually dependent on some eccentric kajillionaire – his decision to donate say, 15 mil worth of Van Gogh and Monet to a Boston museum, or leaving his or her priceless collection of heirlooms to the Smithsonian. Well, here in Seattle, where the Seattle Art Museum (sadly, describing their art collection as “lame” would be too nice, and only every third year do they even get a special exhibit worth visiting) has long disappointed my art-seeking mania, our own eccentric kajillionaire, Paul Allen, has decided to (probably for a hefty fee) display his tremendous collection of art in the Experience Music Project building – for the story see here http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/localnews/2002652590_allenart29.html
Lichtenstein, De Kooning, Monet, Renoir, Picasso, Van Gogh…if you’ve heard of them, he probably has a piece by them. I’m especially excited about the Lichtenstein, I’m a huge fan of his work, which must be seen in person to appreciate. Now, the down side is this very rich guy who charges an arm and a leg to visit EMP, the also-housed-in-the-same-building Science Fiction Museum (yes, a seperate fee for each) will probably also charge an outrageous amount to see his art exhibit. But it’s still cheaper than a visit to San Fran, Boston, or NYC.
The Bellevue Art Museum is also trying to get back on it’s feet. The lofty, centrally-located building has sat empty for many moons now, and back when it did house art (art exhibits included colorful underwear strung across the ceiling, an entire room carpeted on all sides in astroturf, and an exhibit where you laid yourself down on a cube, put on earphones, and watched a video on the ceiling display endless loops of video game heroine Lara Croft being killed) it didn’t exactly bring in the crowds – though I enjoyed it 🙂 I’m hoping they build up a clientele so they can stay in business. The Tacoma Museum of Glass is another fun place to visit, although a bit of a drive from Seattle – their outdoor exhibits (which you can see for free) including a glass-ceilinged bridge containing hundreds of pieces of glass art by Chihuly, and one time, a fountain in which hundreds of red blown glass apples bobbed) often beat the indoors exhibits, except for the working glass shop studio, which is worth your time.
Anyway, visual art is very appealing to me – something I can’t do or make, but that I crave. So, this new infusion is welcome news…just think, with enough $$ you will be able to see Darth Vader’s helmet, Jimi Hendrix’s embroidered suits (he was tiny!) and Gauguin’s painting all in the same visit.

Happy Thanksgiving everyone!
And Rebecca Loudon has once again said it better than I can…
http://radishking.blogspot.com/2005/11/all-watched-over-by-machines-of-loving.html

Its perfect reading weather this time of year, dreary, cold, with short days, and I find myself more and more huddled in my cat-abused chair by the fireplace. I just finished the riveting Here, Bullet, by Brian Turner, which is so accomplished, so clean, and yet moving – I dreamed about being in Iraq after I read it. It just impressed itself into my mind like a brand. And, the wonderful new journal The Fairy Tale Review (www.fairytalereview.com) – I keep reading and re-reading and always find something new. It’s not an academic journal, it’s full of fanciful prose and poetry by the likes of Kim Addonizio, Aimee Bender, Francine Prose…there’s hardly a bad piece in the whole thing, and the journal looks like one of Andrew Lang’s Blue (Red, Crimson, etc) Fairy Books. It’s like I wished something like this to exist and bang, it came into being. Anyway, buy it – $10 is steep for most lit mags, but this one is worth it.

A little slug of good news in the transom today…I know this is old hat for a lot of you, but I just got my first-ever Pushcart nomination, from American Poetry Journal for “Wonder Woman Dreams of the Amazon.” Yippee!

I’ve been lucky – in the latest slug of November-y, drizzling cold rainy days, which can suck the life out of you and make you wonder why you moved the Northwest, I got to see a friend (Kelli Russell Agodon) give one of her best readings ever at the cozy Ravenna Third Place Books venue, and then yesterday got to have a lovely lunch of crepes (mine: toffee-caramel-apple) and coffee with another friend and very talented poet, Annette. I mean, if you have to fight off the gloom of winter, that’s the way to do it.
Now I’ve started reading, appropriately enough for a time of year when it’s dark at 4 PM (if you’re lucky enough to have some sun to start with) Lucille Clifton’s Book of Light. I’ve read through Clifton’s collected/selected books before, but this book really showcases the strength of Clifton’s compact, simple but powerful and direct vocabulary and phrasing. I’m loving the poems about Leda, Cain, and Superman.
Two rejections today with long nice notes, but still – feeling a bit bruised. Been writing some new poems – maybe for the second book – in a new vein, something a little different. Even a prose poem, what’s that line from “Why I am not a Painter” “It is even in prose, now I am a real poet!”